Monthly Archives: June 2015

5 Weird Things I Like To Do!

Hello again! So I’ve decided to stay home today from school with my brother (who is struggling at the moment with some things) and I thought of some of the many weird things i do. So, of course, I thought I’d make a post about it and hopefully give you guys and gals a bit of a giggle. So here we go…

1. Towels.
I always, ALWAYS, have to have the tag of the towel on the bottom right hand side when I’m wearing it. It’s so weird but it has to be the right hand side even if that means the towel is back to front and upside down.

2. Alarms.
I like to leave my alarms on for the morning when I don’t have to get up early because when it goes off I can turn it off and have the satisfaction of going back to sleep. Am I the only one who does that…?

3. Bank Account.
I check the balance in my bank account almost everyday even if I haven’t spent any money. I don’t know whether it’s so I know that it hasn’t disappeared or because I like to know how much I have in reserve but I do it almost automatically now.

4. Odd Socks.
You will never, i repeat NEVER, see me wearing odd socks. I hate them. I think it would physically hurt me to put on two different socks. If I can’t find a match for a sock then it will most likely never be worn again (unless of course the rogue sock shows up).

5. Stress.
I stress myself out over being stressed. Does that make any sense? I think most stress heads like me do this but if I have a lot to do I get so stressed that I can’t do any of it which then makes me more stressed…it’s a vicious cycle!

And that is all for today! Let me know if any of you do any of these too (let me know I’m not completely crazy ;)) by commenting down below. Thanks for reading today! Byyye 🙂 x

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My Favourite Inspirational Song Lyrics

Hello again! Apologies for the lack of posts in the last week or so but I’ve been busy with school and some personal issues. So today I wanted to share some of the most inspirational song lyrics that I’ve been living by these last few weeks. Enjoy!

“We can’t stop the world but there’s so much more that we can do.”
Stop The World – Demi Lovato

“You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness.”
Somebody That I Used To Know – Walk Off The Earth

“Here I am and I stand so tall, just the way I’m supposed to be.”
Gravity – Sara Bareilles

“You don’t have to change a single thing. You don’t have to try so hard. You don’t have to bend until you break.”
Try – Colbie Caillat

“I wanna wake up feeling beautiful today and know that I’m okay cause everyone’s perfect in unusual ways.”
Believe In Me – Demi Lovato

“Now if we meet out on the street I won’t be running scared, I’ll walk right up to you and put one finger in the air.”
Really Don’t Care – Demi Lovato

“Wake up to your dreams and watch them come true.”
Stars Dance – Selena Gomez

“The road was filled with twists and turns but that’s the road that got us here.”
Come So Far – Hairspray

“You gotta hold on, hold on to what you’re feeling, that feeling is the best thing the best thing alright.”
Up – Olly Murs and Demi Lovato

“How could I miss something as simple as this?”
Simple As This – Jake Bugg

“Forget what you thought, cause good girls are bad girls that haven’t been caught.”
Good Girls – 5 Seconds of Summer

“Happiness is what I can’t live without, it’s time to stand out.”
Stand Out – Rags

“Just keep telling myself to live my life, like everything else just keep on breathing, you’ll live.”
While I’m Alive – STRFKR

“I’ll never miss a beat, I’m lightning on feet, and that’s what they don’t see.”
Shake It Off – Taylor Swift

“I hear something strong and it sounds like my name.”
“Sometimes you go up and sometimes you go down and sometimes you must fly so that you can be free.”
“Tomorrow’s my future and it starts here today.”
Look At Me Now – Rags

“We made these memories for ourselves where our eyes are never closing, hearts are never broken and time’s forever frozen still.”
Photograph – Ed Sheeran

“You know that my love is on your side.”
On Your Side – A Rocket to the Moon

“Cut me down but it’s you who’ll have further to fall.”
Titanium – David Guetta and Sia

“If what we had was real, how could you be fine? Cause I’m not fine at all.”
Amnesia – 5 Seconds of Summer

“I’m a warrior, I’m stronger than I’ve ever been and my armour is made of steel, you can’t get in.”
“I’m a warrior and you can never hurt me again.”
“I’m a survivor in more ways than you know.”
Warrior – Demi Lovato

These lyrics have helped me to gain perspective in some difficult situations and I hope that they can do the same for you! Comment down below your favourite song lyric and share it with everyone. Thanks for reading! 🙂 x

How To: Move Through A Breakup.

1. Cry.
The first thing you want/need to do is cry or grieve for your relationship, and that’s perfectly fine. It doesn’t matter how long your relationship was, you have every right to be sad about it ending, even if you were the one who instigated the break up.

2. Talk about it.
The worst thing you can do is bottle it up. Find someone you trust and just vent. Try not to be unreasonable about your ex boyfriend or girlfriend but at the same time you need to get your sadness/anger out.

3. Have time away.
Although the only thing you might want to do is talk to your ex, the best thing to do is give each other space to think and start healing. Don’t completely ignore them if you can help it but try not to depend on them.

4. Talk to them.
You need to have a conversation about why the relationship ended and how you both feel about it. While having this conversation, it’s good to express your feelings but try not to apply blame to the situation. Be rational and reasonable and hold a mature conversation with them.

5. Be friends.
Obviously this isn’t going to work straight away. You need time to get over it. Work slowly towards being friends again. However, if they decide to move on to someone else before you have moved past the break up, don’t feel bad if you need to shut them out of your life for a while. The last thing you want is to be uncomfortable and sad everytime you see your ex. If they have a problem with this then calmly explain to them that it’s not good for you to watch them be together. After some time you’ll be able to be friends again.

Break ups are difficult and this is just my opinion on how to get through a break up. Everyone is different. But i think that talking about it is the best way to move through it and with some luck you’ll still be able to be friends with your ex boyfriend/girlfriend.

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